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10 “dry slap” pieces of dating advice men didn’t know they needed.

Trey Hamilton
9 min readJan 5, 2024

I warned you. This is going to be another unforgiven article that doesn’t spare feelings. Turn away now if you aren’t ready for it.

Many people wax poetic in the world of dating and speak in wonderful platitudes to carry you out throughout your day. I am one of those people, too, when the occasion calls to do so. This article isn’t that.

Now I’m gonna give you some blunt dating advice where it might feel like a dry slap across the face outside on a cold winter day. Because sometimes you just need a raw cup of wake-up juice.

1.“We’ve been dating for nine months when we meet attractive men. She introduces me as her friend”.

What the fuck?!

She doesn’t like you, bro. When men like this hold onto a half-hearted relationship, it’s like clutching a melting ice cube; the tighter you grasp, the quicker it disappears.

I don’t know why she’s with you, and I don’t care to understand. All you need to know is she is wasting your time and possibly waiting for another and better option to…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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