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10 Extremely Damaging Dating Mistakes Men Must Avoid — Part 4!

Look for basic dating competence before anything else!

Trey Hamilton
7 min readMar 15, 2025

Is she basically competent or a fuck up?

Sounds kinda brutal and not sexy, right?

But it’s shocking how many incompetent “fucks ups” there are out there.

People that can’t seem to do the most basic of lifes adult things without fucking something up.

  • She’s 35 but still bouncing rent payments, living paycheck to paycheck, and blaming “capitalism” instead of her chronic Amazon addiction and refusal to budget. This is serious, byt 35 you should have some kinda of safe harbor financially. Please spare me the excuses for her.
  • Perpetual Crisis Mode — Every week, it’s a new catastrophe. Phone got shut off, car got towed, forgot to renew her passport — again. Yet, somehow, it’s never her fault but all these basic adult thingd you have choice but to be organized and competent with, she keeps fucking up.
  • Zero Time Management — She can post 17 Instagram stories before noon but can’t show up to anything on time. Every excuse is a variation of “Omg, time just got away from me!”I’m telling you, it’s a huge mistake to take women like this seriously.
  • Career without a Clue — She’s been at

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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