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3 Easy Steps for women to successfully approach men!

Trey Hamilton
7 min readJul 31, 2022

I’m not a gorgeous woman. I’m a bloke. Which means I’ll never fully understand what it’s like to date as a woman. However, as a man, I’m constantly told to pursue the women I want. So in the age of independent, empowered women. Why are most women still taught to wait…

  • Wait for a text
  • Wait for an invite
  • Wait to be approached
  • Wait for initiation
  • Wait for the 2nd date invite
  • Wait for the phone call
  • Wait for him to ask for your number

Fair enough, this is where we still are I guess, but I have to disagree with this line of thinking and archaic dating paradigm. It subconsciously teaches women that everything in their love life is on a man’s time and terms.

Is that what you truly want?

Most women I know don’t wait for anything in their life, they have deep-rooted confidence and proactivity that allows them to be stellar examples of modern women and femininity.

So why do we have the highest levels of single women in 2022?

Why can’t some women who are actually looking for a relationship find their amazing guy? It’s not because you’re not beautiful. It’s not because you don’t bring…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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