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5 First Date Questions that Build Chemistry!

Trey Hamilton
5 min readJun 20, 2022

Badoo recently released a survey taking a look at how couples realize chemistry on first dates. I love online dating surveys as I feel like it’s accurate non-performative data that you can get some great insights into.

Yes, you guessed it. One of the constant complaints heard from first daters is small talk. That insipid, generic, repetitive conversation we’ve all been a part of when it comes to first dates. Here are some of the metrics

  • 57% of daters find it difficult to know what questions to ask when they first start speaking to someone
  • 62% say it’s because they feel pressure to ask a good question or kickstart a robust conversation
  • 50% say it’s because they’re nervous
  • 32% of daters, it’s hard to decipher what they should be asking in order to get to know the person
  • 30% of daters have experienced a first date in which they’ve not been asked a single question
  • Badoo found that, on average, single people go on five first dates before they find someone they have chemistry with.
  • 84% believe asking the right questions is hugely vital in seeing whether you have chemistry with someone.

Well, my friends, you would be correct in that assumption. Asking the right questions…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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