A lot of good points. But your objections to the original points made hold as much water. The arguments on both sides are weak and backed with little data. I think the mistake you made is judging your neighbor. You assumed your way of thinking was right because you’re more progressive. But the reality is he has a right to feel that way and stand by his opinion the exact same way you do. You’re both better off with your partners who share similar beliefs so I don’t know why people get frustrated with high or low body counts. Let people have a preference.