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A lot of men are struggling to date women right now; here’s why…
It’s not what you think.
Are you done with dating? Are you just fed up?! Why can’t you catch a break? Maybe you’re feeling frustrated because you can’t seem to get a girlfriend, or maybe you’re just looking to up your game and become that guy who finally gets THE girl! Whatever your motivation, you’re in luck because, in this article, I want to explore and break down all the reasons why some guys are more successful with women than others and why you might be struggling to find your dream girl.
The dating universe can feel overwhelming and merciless at times. Your frustrations are completely valid, and I’m here to assure you that so many men have walked this path before, feeling the same confusion and longing, but there are insights and tools that can turn things around for you.
Being a Gentleman is shit advice.
When I was about 13–14 years old, I started to really like girls. My mum would give me the old cliched advice.
“Just be a gentleman.”
“Be nice”
“Open doors for her”
“buy flowers”
“buy the meal.”