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“Are We Dating The Same Guy” — Women are using your pictures without consent.

Inside the hidden group of shame and beratement.

Trey Hamilton
14 min readFeb 8, 2025

Imagine if you went on a date with a woman and you really were not feeling it. The vibe just seemed off, and they said some things that really offended you and crossed your audible boundaries a few times to the point it was annoying.

The date ends, and when they send you a text asking to see you again. You ignore it.

It was such a harrowing experience you don’t even want to remotely engage with them, so you either block the number and unmatch or just ghost.

Perfectly fine right?

Only a few days later, while speaking to another woman on a dating app or via text. She cancels the date and explains it’s because of this:

*sends a screenshot of you on Facebook titled “Are we dating the same guy Chicago”.*** This has a group membership of 116k people!

In this post, it’s basically several screenshots of you taken from your dating app pictures, and the woman you rejected is telling a group full of 116k women men in the downtown Chicago area to stay clear of you that you’re a “fuckboy” and a terrible person.

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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