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Are Women Truly Unable to Discover Men on “Their Caliber”?

Trey Hamilton
14 min readMay 20, 2023

Yes, there are a lot of women out there who talk like this.

Oh, it gets worse; these kinds of women say shit like:

  • “Plenty of guys want me, but I don’t want them”
  • “I want my financial euqual”
  • “I can’t find a man who makes as much money as I do”
  • “I need a man to level up”
  • “I can’t find a marriage worthy man”
  • “Why Are So Many Professional Millennial Women Unable To Find Dateable Men?”
  • “I Can’t Find A Relationship Without Lowering My Standards”
  • “Why high-achieving women can struggle to be as successful in love as they are in their careers”

What an arrogant and self-involved thing to say. “Dating down” is such an unbelievably condescending, shallow, narcissistic way of seeing a relationship or a human being as if making more than someone makes you somehow on a higher different level. I’m genuinely annoyed this thought process has become so commonplace. Because I know so many good men that make $50k — 80K and women look at them as if they have the Spanish flu.

Goofy.

Love is not that easy. Right? And it’s especially hard in this economy. And guess what? Many women say they…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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