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Can you be “HIM”?

Trey Hamilton
11 min readAug 6, 2024

How do be charming, anytime? Anywhere, any place.

So many men want to be charming; many have tried, and many have failed.

Miserably and painfully. Waving the dreaded metaphorical flag as “cringe, lord” and having charm as effective as a screen door on a submarine.

I have been that guy. Trying but failing, if you’re him now or you were read on! Let’s have some laughs on the way.

There’s nothing more cringe and downright embarrassing than trying to flirt with a woman you really like and then saying something completely stupid and odd in your pathetic attempt at winning her over. Stumbling over your words while trying to charm a woman like putting roller skates on a horse and expecting magic. It’s an unpredictable mess of somewhat good intentions and hard falls that’s just about as smooth as a cactus poking you on the right arse cheek.

But cultivating an aura of charm — a quality that has been equally sought-after by so many men for as long as most men can remember.

Cause we know that when wielded effectively, it has the power to draw people in, engage them and persuade them to understand…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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