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“Dating Chemistry” doesn’t exist.
It never has, and it never will.
“It’s just some bullshit whimsical notion hallmark and so-called dating gurus tell you so you can sleep at night knowing you’ve made poor dating decisions on some mythical connection.”
Most relationships and marriages are practical, reliable, consistent, and pragmatic, with romance added when both need that extra spice.
People who want a relationship and are blaming the lack thereof for not finding anyone with that spark or chemistry are only fooling themselves.
I know a lot of friends, family, and colleagues will kiss your ass and gas you up. But they’ll never tell you the truth cause they want to be “nice.” I believe sometimes you need to take that other route to get to that special someone who will add to your happiness; sometimes, that other route is looking inward. Seeing outside of yourself for the beauty life could be.
I once had a client who went on his first date, and he came back to me on our second session and told me how it went.
Him: That was one of the most amazing dates I’ve ever been on. She’s passionate. She has a lovely…