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Dating Lessons Most Men Won’t Tell You…

These might hurt you a little.

Trey Hamilton
11 min readAug 22, 2024

The dating landscape for men is screamingly different from just five years ago.

And five years before that.

It’s like trying to catch a greased pig at a county fair — just when you think you’ve got a handle on it, it slips right out from your grasp! Arrogantly snorting back at you with smug glee as if you say.

“You fucking knob head, you have no idea what you’re doing huh?”

Despite this, some men and a lot of women keep bashing things over our heads that:

A. Are not true

B. Some wishy-washy performative romanticized aphorism version of dating that barely exists.

C. Hammering down how shit men are instead of trying to help.

D. A constant berating of men who usually aren’t even part of the culture they reference.

Often, the advice we receive from friends, family, other women, or the media doesn’t quite hit the mark. Empty rhetoric from people who would get eaten alive in today's modern dating market. Advice from the sidelines rarely prepares you for the game.

Looking back on my own experiences, I wish I had been privy to some of the hard-earned wisdom other men who are…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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