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Dating Lies, Men Must Ignore!

Trey Hamilton
7 min readMar 20, 2024

Some people will go out of their way to exploit men. They’ll say nice wish washy things cause it’s what you want to hear. But it’s not the truth or things that will actually help. I honestly do not know when this became a thing, but a lot of these coaches give this kind of “good guy advice.”They’re doing it for e-fame, and they’re doing it for their platform regulators, i.e., YouTube and TikTok. These “experts” know that if they give nice and feel-good sounding tactics that seem easy and effective, it might work. Why? Because their audience, most of whom are simping men, are going drink all of their “knowledge” up in hopes they can get a girl.

You’re falling right into their “buy my $2000 dollar course, trap”. Dreams will always sell far better than the truth. Some dating coaches serve up honeyed words like a smooth cocktail, but real-life dating hits like a straight shot of whiskey — a jarring contrast between sweet illusions and the hard-hitting truth of what men face.

So here are some commonly annoying lies you gotta ignore.

Dating Lie Number 1:

Don’t be too eager in the early stage. Otherwise, you’ll scare them off.

The truth: If you’re eager and they’re not interested, it wouldn’t even matter if you weren’t eager; the simple fact would still remain

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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