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Fellas: It’s Time To Stop Pandering and Stop Spending.

You’re Wasting Your Money on Women Who Don’t Even Like You!

Trey Hamilton
12 min readFeb 3, 2025

Be cheap, be broke, and be stingy when it comes to dating.

Not because you can’t afford it — but because spending big on a woman you barely know is the fastest way to lose respect, money, and time. Dropping major cash on a stranger is like seasoning a steak you haven’t bought yet — why are you investing in something that’s not even yours? (And yes, I know women are not property; it’s a figure of speech, pipe down)

And no, this isn’t clickbait- I'm saying this with my chest fully puffed out. It’s the truth most men are too scared to say out loud. Cause of most of us don’t enjoy doing it until we know she actually likes us.

The Myth You’ve Been Sold

Social Media and alleged “dating experts” love to tell you:
💸 “If you don’t spend money on her, you don’t value her!”
💸 “A real man proves himself by paying for everything!”
💸 “You have to impress her with luxury, or she won’t take you seriously!”

That’s the most enormous pile of Triceratops shit I’ve ever heard.

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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