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Fellas, please stop taking dating advice from women in 2024.
(Disclaimer: Please read the whole article before you start running your mouth in the comments. I address all contrarian opinions in most of my articles because I know what most of you think. You just disagree cause you don’t like the title. READ THE WHOLE THING before you comment, and don’t make a point on things I never wrote. FFS)
I didn’t stutter.
“You misogynist”
“Asshole”
“What a douchebag.”
Get them out of your system while you still can.
As men, we’re always told, “we’ll never understand,” “those are womens spaces,” “it’s not your lived experience,” ‘That’s a woman’s issue, stay out of it,’ and ‘You’re a man, this isn’t for you to comment on,’ and for the most part we keep it moving and mind our business. We’re instructed, ‘Men can’t understand women’s issues,’ as if empathy is gendered, then questioned why we’re not empathetic enough.
Yet when it comes to dating advice, every woman and their grandma wants to chime in. (of course, I’m being facetious for those of you who lack any kind of light humor, not literally every woman).
I’ve actually read a few books from some dating coaches who are women giving specific advice to men. I’ve watched social media…