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FELLAS: These Dating Skills Don’t Even Need You to Speak.

Leveraging Nonverbal Cues to Elevate Your Dating Game

Trey Hamilton
9 min readFeb 5, 2025

Over the course of a few years, I’ve learned five scientific physical signs that your first date is going well!

I discovered that there are five body language signs your first date is going well, according to some positively nerdy researchers.

What if I told you that your success on a first date has nothing to do with what you say? Rather, what body language can you read and convey?

Forget the perfect opener.

Forget memorizing conversation hacks.

Women decide whether they feel chemistry before you even finish your first sentence.

Sounds unfair. But here’s the twist — you can flip this to your advantage.

I’ve always seen dating as a silent auction, where the highest bid isn’t in words but in confidence, posture, and the way you hold and maintain that masculine frame.

The Science Behind Silent Attraction

According to Dr. Albert Mehrabian’s 7–38–55 Rule, only 7% of communication is verbal.

7%!!!???

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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