How to be charming on any date you’re on! : Part 1

So many men want to be charming; many have tried, and many have failed.

Miserably and painfully.

I have been that guy. It made me never want to date again! There’s nothing more cringe and downright embarrassing than trying to flirt with a woman you like and then saying something completely stupid and odd in your pathetic attempt at winning her over. Stumbling over your words while trying to charm a woman is like putting roller skates on a horse. It’s an unpredictable mess of good intentions and hard falls that’s just about as smooth as a cactus poking you on the arse.

But cultivating an aura of charm — a quality that has been equally sought-after by so many men for as long as most men can remember. This aspiration stems from the understanding that charm, when wielded effectively, has the power to draw people in, engage them and persuade them to understand how great you are and how much you’ve built your social skills over time. According to the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, a study found that those who demonstrate charm, or charismatic individuals, are often rated higher in terms of attractiveness and are more likely to be perceived as leaders. Why would any man not work on this!?