How to be charming on any date you’re on! : Part 2

There are guaranteed to be some things you haven’t tried in this article…

For as long as many of us can remember, dating and relationships are much like how an unsolved mystery grabs our attention; the allure of an unknown potential person in our life can be equally captivating. The magic ingredient? Mystique — a fascinatingly powerful trigger that can turn a man’s dating world around.

So, why does this enigma of the unknown engross us? Humans are hard-wired with curiosity. Why do you think people are so damn nosey? I can’t even bop my head at the gym without some goober staring at me, thinking I’m crazy for vibing to the beat. Driven by our deep-seated urge to fill the gaps in our understanding, a lot of people often find themselves drawn to what they don’t know; this is why it’s important not to just blurt out every facet of information about yourself on any first date. Be patient. Show, don’t tell.

Psychologist George Loewenstein called this the ‘Information Gap Theory,’ asserting our strong desire to chase the unknown until we find answers. When applied to the dating realm, it’s about charming a woman by holding back just enough to stoke her curiosity. Being charming is the art of revealing, not all, but just enough to set the stage of curiosity a blaze.