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If you’re dating women, you gotta be tough and resilient.

Trey Hamilton
7 min readJan 23, 2025

What!? That’s bullshit. Dating should come naturally. When it happens, it happens. The right woman will come along!

No.

That’s what people used to say, and some of these whimsical, non-reality puppets like to parrot that on any given social media platform.

Life is not a Disney movie.

That’s not anything that happens in life. Dreams don’t walk to your doorstep; you’ve got to run to meet them.

But “shit done changed.” Society has evolved, gotten harder, more selfish, and more self-involved than they ever have been before. People are cooked. We’re living in a world where holding the door for someone feels like a heroic act, and saying ‘thank you’ is practically a love letter.

This means it’s time for you to evolve to cut above the noise by using your:

  • Autonomy
  • Competence
  • Belonging

More on this if you scroll down.

The old ways of dating are nearly gone. If you’re a man and you actually want to go out there and meet what you feel like is your perfect woman. You gotta be mentally tough, and I’ll show you how.

LFG.

How can men thrive in 2025…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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