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I’m doing everything right, and still, there are NO WOMEN!

Trey Hamilton
9 min readDec 20, 2024

No dates.

No romance.

No sex.

No flirting.

What the fuck am I doing wrong!?

Here’s the good news.

Any man, if they’re honest, has been here. Or, at the very leas,t not actually dating the women they WANT to date. Let’s keep it 100, most men are just one bad Hinge match away from convincing themselves they have a ‘type’ they never wanted.

“I’m doing everything right, and nothing seems to change.”

It’s so annoyingly frustrating to put in the effort — dressing well, going out, using dating apps — only to feel stuck like; you’ve been hacking away at the tree for days, and it’s still not even close to falling down.

Consistent rejection feels like a brutal and cold validation of all of your fears , getting nowhere in your dating life starts to feel less like a lesson and more like a relentless subscription service you can’t fucking cancel. You try, fail, fail, and fail again and wonder:

“Is it even worth it?”

“What the fuck is the point of all this!”

“All the 10/10 guy bag all the women anyway”.

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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