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It’s so tiring trying to date women these days.

I’m sure you can identify with at least one of these…

Trey Hamilton
13 min readJul 13, 2023

Sometimes as a single man actively dating, you just want to through your hands in the air and say,

“to hell with it! I’m done.”

“I’m out! I didn’t sign up to bankroll a stranger’s life!”

“This is madness! I’m not spending another penny on maybes!”

“That’s it! My wallet is for my dreams, not for impressing people I barely know!”

“How much more of this can I do”

I could discuss the opposite for women. But most articles about dating are geared towards women. It’s no secret that the majority of dating advice and resources out there are geared toward women. In fact, a survey conducted by the dating app, Hinge, found that 84% of their users were women, and only 16% were men. This disparity is also reflected in the self-help and advice sections of bookstores, where shelves are lined with books targeted toward women seeking relationship advice. Finding dating advice for men is like looking for a vegan at a steakhouse — nearly impossible and oddly out of place

But why is this the case? Perhaps it’s because some women have been traditionally seen as the ones who seek out relationships and are, therefore, in…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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