Men are Swiping in the Spotlight — Why Men Can’t Date Without an Audience Anymore

Privacy for you is fucking dead if you dare to even step in the spotlight of modern dating, and I’ll tell you all the secrets, nooks, and crannies of things you might not even know yet.

Screenshots.

Videos.

Voice notes.

“Private” text messages.

All of these things you might have sent someone you were dating or in a relationship. She has either shared it with her friends or, worse, with the public, social media, and all the rest.

Each intimate whisper you’ve ever shared with your lover, each tender word typed in the glow of passion, may now be laid bare. Splashed across her circle of friends, or worse, paraded in the ruthless, relentless arena of social media for all to dissect about shit they know nothing of.

If you’re a man, even worse. Cause remember, by society’s own modern standards, men are not really allowed to make mistakes or be fallible. So the moment you say something misinterpreted, they can’t wait to post it on their socials and tell the world how bad you are. It gets attention and clicks. The relentless “men are trash” narrative keeps spinning unchecked, dragging us into a whirlwind of unobjective drivel and mindless chatter.