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Men are using your pictures without consent to shame and berate you online!

Trey Hamilton
11 min readFeb 4, 2023

Yes, this is happening!

Imagine if you went on a date with a guy and you really were not feeling it. The vibe just seemed off, and they said some things that really offended you and crossed your audible boundaries a few times.

The date ends, and when they send you a text asking to see you again. You ignore it.

It was such a harrowing experience you don’t even want to remotely engage with them, so you either block the number and unmatch or just ghost.

Perfectly fine right?

Only a few days later while speaking to another guy on a dating app or via text. He cancels the date and explains it’s because of this:

**sends a screenshot of you on a Facebook titled “Guys of Chicago”.***

In this post, it’s basically several screenshots of you taken from your dating app pictures, and the dude you rejected is telling a group full of 3k men in the downtown Chicago area to stay clear of you that you’re a “hoe” and a terrible person.

It would be pretty messed up, right?

In fact, it would be illegal.

These things are happening every day.

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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