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Men Fail at Dating Because They Still Think It’s Fair

11 min readJun 1, 2025

I used to be pretty shit at dating, TBH.

So I read a lot of books about dating. Over 300 books in 7 years. With the number of dating advice books on my Kindle, I’m worried it might pop out of its sleeve and start dating on its own.

But eventually, I figured it out. If I can ‘keep it real’ with you, I solved the problem.

65% were my own issues.

After reading numerous books, I’ve noticed common and consistent themes, and I’d like to share them with you. So buckle up and ride shotgun with me on this journey. No need to fork out the big bucks for this article, it’s your free ticket to simply getting BETTER.

Let’s go!!!!

1. Pace yourself

A lot of relationships seem just to be based on momentum and conventional “next steps.”

  • Oh, they talked to me, so I guess we’re going out?
  • Oh, we’ve gone out. So I guess we’ll start dating.
  • Oh, we’re dating. I guess we’ll move in together.
  • Well, we moved in together. Oh, now we’re engaged.

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Mav Hamilton
Mav Hamilton

Written by Mav Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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