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Men Gotta Stop Losing Their Absolute Minds Over One “lil” Rejection

Harden the f**k up, fellas.

Trey Hamilton
8 min readFeb 7, 2025

(As per usual, a disclaimer, if you get butt hurt by an opinion, dislike colorful language, or you’re a sensitive soul, please don’t read this. It ain’t for you.)

When I got back into the dating game a couple of years back after being out of it for so long, rejection was super hard for me cause I hadn’t been rejected for so long I almost forgot how incredibly shitty and self-defeating it all felt. It kinda felt like stepping on a rake that wacks me square in the middle of that ugly mug of mine — unexpected, embarrassing, and entirely too painful for something so simple.

But that’s the thing about getting smacked in the face — it teaches you where not to step next time.

But never in my life did I react like some of the screenshots I’m about to share with you.

Most guys think rejection is unfair, but the real problem is how they handle it.

Look, man, life’s unfair. It is what it is. Do you think that shit ends with dating and rejection?

No.

Fellas, life is a goddamn jungle. The strong hunt, and the weak get hunted. The rules aren’t fair, but fairness was…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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