Most men are crap at conversation and that’s okay.

How to improve your communication skills on any date!

Be brave enough to start a conversation that matters.

Margaret Wheatley

If I’m being honest with you all. It took about 2 years of dating for me to master the art of conversation with women.

And even now, I had re-learn all of that to work a functional healthy relationship. Conversation particularly with women is ever evolving.

For some strange reason, humans have a natural tendency to want to parade themselves around and only talk about what they like and find interesting. I remember I left one date thinking “I had it in the bag”, and she was wayyyy interested.

I didn’t.

I did not, indeed, “Have it in — the — bag”.

I was swinging the lead like a champ, thinking I had the ball in my court, only to realize I’d put the cart before the horse and ended up up the creek without a paddle

I think I spent an outrageous amount of time talking about myself.

I learned how to communicate better because I started to realize I was the problem.

I would practice all these new skills and study the art of conversation because I wanted to be a better option for anyone who wanted to find love as much as I did.