Most People Are Single Cause They’re Problem!

Trey Hamilton
10 min readSep 3, 2024

Buckle and get ready for a leviathan like pill of common sense and a swift slap back to reality.

Hold onto your butts.

Maybe, just maybe, you’re the reason for your own singledom. Maybe you’re your worst enemy.

But don’t worry; I’m not here to shame, judge or belittle you.

Okay, I’m here to judge you a little. Who am I kidding? I love judging people, as most of us do.

But I’m still here to help you. So grab a glass of wine (or your preferred beverage of choice), and let’s keep it real, shall we? No performative virtue-signaling bullshit, just cold hard opinions.

First of all, I don’t know you. But I love ya! As a matter of fact, I love most humans. Even if you’re a bit of an asshole, cause I’m a bit of an asshole, too.

(Also, if you’re “happily single,” “don’t want a relationship,” “don’t need no one,” “single by choice,” and all the other COPE like cliches you can muster. Please stop reading. This article is not for you. It’s for people who genuinely want something real)

I’ve been consulting and have been coaching in the realm of dating for about seven years now.

I AM NOT A DATING EXPERT.

But I have learned one thing.

There seems to be a common denominator when it comes to around 70% of the people I’ve coached.

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Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com