Only get into a relationship if you discuss these five things…

There are some things that people have either touched on lightly or never discussed at all in 3+ year relationships. Or people who are married and still haven’t really gotten into a root understanding of the things I’m about to discuss.

If you have an in-depth conversation about all of the topics I’m about to mention and revisit them every now and then to make sure you’re on the same page. I promise you that your relationship will go on to give you peace and joy!

1. Sex

What kind? Kinky, rough, gentle, all the above is it even good for them?

Sex! Is amazing. It truly is. But there are so many people and relationships that never really discuss what they like. They never really say, “I’m so horny, and here are all the things I want to do to do to you”. Here are all the things I want to tease you with; here are my filthiest desires, and I want to share them with you. Sexual needs are harder to explain and ask from someone. The longer you hold off that conversation, the harder it will be, and subtle resentment will build up until it’s too late.