She told me there was no chemistry! What does that mean?

When I used to consult full-time, this was a common message I would get from some of my male clients from time to time. This kind of rejection:

“There was no chemistry.”

When they asked the lady in question if she’d like to go on a second date, that response was a very frequent one. Here’s a message I got on my IG from one of my clients three years ago.

“I had a date yesterday, and I thought it was ok. We made plans to hangout again on Sunday. But then she texted me explaining that she felt no chemistry. Dude WTF!? What does that mean?”

She’s not interested

TLDR: It’s a polite way of saying she’s not attracted to you.

I genuinely wish I had a more magical sentence or some kind of long recompense for your brief moment of pain in rejection. But after one date and someone rules you out as having “no chemistry.”

Bruv, they don’t care.

In my experience and from all the women and men I’ve spoken to over the years she’s most likely slightly attracted to you but just not feeling the vibe.

Sometimes you’re just not that hot to some women.