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“She’s probably not that interested, bruv.”

Why trusting your gut its one of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever gotten.

Trey Hamilton
10 min readMar 12, 2024

I’ve had so many conversations with male friends, clients, and even dudes at the gym about a woman they’re kind of dating, and they’re in this kinda limbo phase. They’re the kind who’d bring a compass to a first date, just in case the conversation veers into uncharted territories.

Have you ever heard of Occams Razor principle?

It’s basically a principle based on this simple fact. When faced with multiple possible explanations. The simplest one is most likely to be true.

So you can play verbal or mental gymnastics as to why she takes 7+ hours to respond or hasn’t given you a clear date to meet up yet, or hasn’t given you her number off of the dating app, or she’s seen your message on IG and hasn’t responded, or it’s been the 5th date, and you haven’t even kissed!

The simplest answer.

She’s not that interested.

Sorry.

Trust your own heart and natural human instincts, always. Your heart’s quiet whisper and your instincts’ subtle nudge are the universe’s way of speaking wisdom to you; to trust them is to align yourself with the age-old stoic practice of following nature’s…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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