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Should I Kiss On The First Date?

Trey Hamilton
5 min readJul 2, 2022

Well?

Should you really kiss a stranger on the first date…

Yes.

But as with everything else, there are some nuances. Things are never black and white so let’s get into it.

This conversation has divided people since kissing was a thing I’m sure there were some cavemen banging their clubs in frustration figuring out where to take their cavewoman, swamp, or near the bushes, where they hunted bison last week or should they ride a sabretooth together? So many options back then.

It’s a classic question. But the reason I always say just do it (consensually of course) Is that there is not a single concrete answer. Just look at this article from Women’s Health Magazine, they asked them all would you kiss on the first date, and here’s what they said:

  • “It depends on the person.”
  • “I would’ve gone home feeling like I semi-wasted my time.”
  • “Only do it if there’s a spark.”
  • “If you’re vibing with the other person, why not?”
  • “Just go with the flow.”
  • “Does it appear to be something that

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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