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The lack of empathy for men is shocking — wait, it’s actually not.

Trey Hamilton
17 min readJan 17, 2024

Are you a young single man feeling a little lonely these days? Wondering why you feel like you’re really trying your best, yet just by your existing and being born with a cock, some women just hate you. Don’t worry; you’re not alone. Especially cause whenever men open up and say, things have been rough for them lately, oftentimes they’re hit with some of these gems.

(Disclaimer: Please don’t jump on here saying “men have been doing blah, blah for decades or “but WOMEN deal with this” or patriarchy, patriarchy, and patriarchy. There are plenty of articles, movies, media, and the like for that. This is for men and men only. Suppose you don’t like it. Go away.

Ah, yes, the wisdom and nuanced thinking of the internet.

This is why a lot of men are struggling because even if they are doing moderately okay by society’s standards, “people” will just make fun of them and act like they don’t have feelings.

The comments like the one above are baffling to me. Do some of these women not know there is a world where can care about women’s and men’s issues simultaneously? Imagine an Asian friend saying to…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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