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The Myth of ‘Unlucky in Love’ and How You’re Screwing Yourself Over!

Trey Hamilton
7 min readJan 17, 2023

You’ve likely heard the phrase “unlucky in love” before and may even have used it to describe your own dating experiences. However, this phrase is not only damaging, but it’s also simply not true. In reality, the notion of being “unlucky in love” is often a self-fulfilling prophecy and one that you have the power to change. Today.

Unlucky in love? More like ‘unlucky in perspective,’ am I right? According to studies, a positive outlook on dating increases your chances of finding love by a whopping 300%.

Jesus. 300%.

300%!!!!!!

You must throw away that ‘forever alone’ attitude and start seeing yourself as the catch you indeed are.

Yes, you. You’re a catch.

Luck in love is the biggest piece of codswallop.

First and foremost, recognize that the idea of “luck” in love is a myth; it’s been touted by one too many sitcoms and rom-com's. While it may feel like some people just have a natural ability to find and maintain relationships, the truth is that everyone has the potential to…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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