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The Only Dating Advice For Men You Need to Start 2025, Right — Part 4

Trey Hamilton
4 min readJan 4, 2025

No more being “super agreeable.”

I mean it! Try and pry your lips off of her bum cheeks and lean into who you really are.

When it comes to dating advice for men, neediness is scorned; you may find yourself playing it cool, trying to suppress your true feelings for fear of being labeled “needy,” so instead, you just agree with everything she says. Or you do the most agreeable things cause you just want the first date to go right, and you don’t want to lose her, or you simply want to get laid.

This façade will most likely always lead to misunderstandings and resentment, and your character ends up looking even more paper thin cause most women can see right past that shit.

I keep telling you women are significantly people smart. False bravado is a house of cards in a windstorm, and every glance reveals the fragile lie holding it together.

They know why you’re doing it. They know why you’re lips are super glued to her ass cheeks. They know when you’re just agreeing to get laid, and they know when you're just being who you think they want you to be.

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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