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The only mens dating advice you need to start 2024, right!

Trey Hamilton
26 min readJan 3, 2024

Another year has gone by. What do you have to show for it? Fuck any other piece of dating advice you’re going to read but this one. This is the article that’s going to revolutionize your next three months.

If you have a bias for action.

I’m going to be brutally frank, like a sledgehammer kissing your right cheek. So prepare for some gut-punching, unapologetic wisdom. If that’s not your bag, don’t read this. You ain’t ready.

You made it to 2024, had some good dates, had some bad dates, and maybe even got close to a relationship.

Alas, you’re still single.

But this is excellent news.

Another year, another 365 days full of new opportunities. If you’ve still decided to put yourself out there again, read on, it’s time to buck up, become dedicated to transformation, and put comfort zones on the back burner. This needs to be your best year for growth. The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago; the second best time is now.

One year is nothing and extremely easy to waste, but with small actions, substantial commitment, and consistency, you can make it count. Forge your destiny with the hammer of daily deeds; even the toughest steel is shaped by continuous strikes. Don’t forget that.

Whatever it is, remember that with small and simple things are great things brought to pass!

Okay, let’s do this shit!

1. If anyone tells you to “just be confident” in 2024. Throw your beer all over that smug face.

Okay, of course, I’m kidding. But sometimes, that’s how I feel. (please don’t throw beer at anyone)

One of the most annoying and often misunderstood oversimplified pieces of dating advice that goes beyond beating a dead horse is the mantra of “just be confident.”

It’s like telling a depressed man to simply cheer up — a well-meaning but ultimately ineffective and shitty piece of advice. It’s so fucking…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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