Member-only story
The Top 10 Dating Lies You Must Ignore!
Dating Lie Number 1:
Don’t be too eager in the early stage. Otherwise, you’ll scare them off
The truth: If you’re eager and they’re not interested, it wouldn’t even matter if you weren’t eager. All it would do is prolong the fact that they’re not really that bothered about you anyway. Just be yourself and do what comes naturally. It will all work itself out.
Dating Lie Number 2:
If someone doesn’t respond to your texts, send a follow-up. They probably just missed it.
The Truth: Trust me, friends, they did see it, but they just didn’t care enough to respond.
I hate to be the bearer of bad news but, someone who’s really interested will never require you to double text. You’re always welcome to double text, just be aware this is a subtle warning shot.
Dating Lie Number 3:
Just put yourself out there.
The truth: Any number multiplied by zero is zero. Putting yourself out there via real life, online dating, or a cold approach. Won’t help you if you’re not taking any interest from most people in the first place. What I mean by that is before you “just put yourself out there.” You have to know what you're putting yourself out there for, what…