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There is absolutely a Top 10% of Men. It ain’t some red pill myth.

Trey Hamilton
12 min readAug 1, 2024

(Disclaimer: this article has language and is not for the faint of heart. but it will be the best article you read this month. finish till the end! )

There always has been, and there always will be.

When people pretend this segment of men doesn’t exist, I find it odd and, quite frankly, a little delusional. Pretending there’s no “Top 10% of Men” is like insisting that penguins can fly. Sure, it’s a cute idea, but let’s get real here!

And I get it, right?

No one gender likes to be told what they find attractive or be so monolithically described with their romantic proclivities. We all swear we’re so fantastically unique.

But here’s the rub, women and men are not nearly as unique as we want to be in the very first initial stages of dating and attraction. We think attraction is mysterious; it’s actually painfully predictable.

Most men like attractive feminine women, and most women like well-built masculine men. Fight it all you want. There’s simply too much extensive research in evolutionary psychology, empirical data, and raw data from dating studies. This preference is deeply rooted in biological and evolutionary factors that have shaped human mating behaviors over millennia.

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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