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“They Don’t Like You, Bruv!” — Signals of Disinterest Through Text Messages

Trey Hamilton
7 min readApr 17, 2023

I’m convinced that most people are lemmings and don’t have much going on outside of their phones. Most of us text when it comes to getting to know someone or at least building the subtle embers of communication and a spark that could ignite the very thing that you’ve been looking for.

But what do you do when they’re not really that interested? Or if you’ve been on a few dates and eventually start slowing signs of the slow fade, how do you know?

Here are six texting signs that show they might not be interested.

1. The energy has completely changed

Do you text that person you like with great enthusiasm, and you are excited to get to know them? Are you always the one with energy in the conversation? Are you constantly watering the plants to keep them alive?

Communicational energy should be matched.

We know most people are different, and not everyone has the same enthusiasm while texting, but there has to be a definite and measurable level of reciprocity. If you notice a sudden change in their attitude…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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