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They’re out of your league and you don’t even know it!
I feel like back in the day, and now I always had a good sense of how I stacked amongst other men and what kind of women I could somehow convince to go on a date with me. I always kinda knew how attractive I was. I also had a good understanding that some women were just so attractive that I would never quite compare with other more attractive men they had dated in the past. I was very much okay with this.
It’s the shrewd and cold truth. It’s a reality that somehow bludgeons you repeatedly, with no death being the end result. Just a very painful reminder that is and will always be a dating hierarchy.
The sooner you know this and have a good understanding of where you stand socially, this can be your biggest strength.
But we don’t live in reality these days, do we? Society quickly becomes increasingly disingenuous as the years go by. You can blame social media for that. People drop performative comments and pandering videos to what the current “virtue signaling” wave is. People are never really honest with where we all really stand when it comes to how attractive we really are.