This is the only rant you’ll ever hear from me bashing men.

Men, what the actual fuck, man!?

Whilst on vacation with my partner, my eyes were truly opened from a woman’s point of view more than ever before. Seeing through her lens, I felt like a mole coming out in daylight — everything was bright and a bit too real!

This is something that I’ve always known; for example, a study by the National Sexual Assault Hotline found that 81% of women have experienced some form of sexual harassment in their lives. But this time, it was more glaringly potent; it was fully realized when I was on this trip.

MEN ARE FUCKING CREEPY AND CAN’T KEEP THEIR EYES TO THEMSELVES.

And yes, I mean all men, including me.

Oh yeah, we’re going there today. If this article triggers you, kiss my ass. I’m not pulling punches.

We’re biologically wired to like boobs, asses, legs, faces, whatever you can think of; we love women that have them.

But here’s the caveat.

As years roll on, true men come to realize that there’s an art to looking — a balance between admiration and respect. It’s been tagged lately as “the male gaze,” but let’s be real: there’s a time and place for it. Without that spark, how do husbands, partners, or boyfriends show they’re still…