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Try This On Your Next “First Date”

There’s a huge low-hanging fruit here!

Trey Hamilton
8 min readJul 25, 2023

Time is important. It’s the most valuable resource when it comes to life; you can’t repurchase it and go back in time (Unless your name is Marty McFly) once time is spent. It’s gone, never to be seen again.

But there’s another element of dating that I feel is severely underrated.

The skill that can make all the difference when it comes to dating:

FOCUS.

You have to commit yourself to focusing on the goal of finding a good woman who can go through life with you. You might think you have all the time in the world. But you don’t.

The myth of natural dating

“Focus on dating? Committed to a goal of finding someone. Ugh dating should come natural”.

Did that thought just enter that lovely noggin of yours?

I’ll let you in on a little secret.

There’s no such thing as natural or organic dating. Everything requires thought and action. Dating involves two people with different personalities, preferences, and backgrounds…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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