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Trying to date as a man is still a boiling hot dumpster fire!

Oh shit, here we go again…

Trey Hamilton
14 min readNov 24, 2023

(Disclaimer: This is an uplifting article mixed with a rant with strong language, so if words frighten your sensitive proclivities, please bore off. You can’t handle this article.)

We’re almost done! 2023 is almost over.

Dating as a man has gotten worse!

Yeah, I didn’t think it could. But it did.

Just ask this guy who got filmed and shamed online.

Or this guy who got stood up.

Or this guy who apparently gives up after 4 approaches of women.

Shit is getting worse out there, fellas.

It’s like playing a game of dodgeball in the dark — you never know what’s coming next! What story you’re gonna hear about a man getting socially eviscerated and everyone jumping in for clout.

A lot of the dating is really bad because most people think it isn’t bad for us. We’re oligarchical patriarchal men; what could we possibly know about being hurt, right? Or so the sentiment goes. The moment I write an article like this, there is always some troll that wants to invalidate men’s feelings and cite men being evil and committing crimes throughout history. Such a weird comparison to a man who…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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