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What’s The Real Reason Men No Longer Approach Women?
Are men seriously done?
It’s 2025, and that same tired question is being blasted around social media and various news outlets.
Why don’t men approach women anymore?
(And please — let me stop you there. If you’re on the bandwagon of “i don’t want to be approached,” “we don’t need men,” or “men are useless anyway,”. Stop reading. This ain’t for you. Save your comments for the birds.)
That title and question should really change.
It’s not really a question of men not approaching women anymore.
It could be more of a question of why the creepy, shitty men are still approaching women.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b1XGPvbWn0A
But where are “the good ones”? Where are the men from the rom-coms and reality shows that seem to sweep women off of their feet easily? The ones that some of your happily married friends or friends in successful relationships told you about?
They’re out there; I can promise you that.