Who The F*ck Cares About Why She’s Not Interested.

Trey Hamilton
6 min readDec 2, 2024

That’s not any of your concern.

Spending time worrying or even giving a second thought to why she ghosted you, didn’t like you, blocked you, or broke up with you is a big fat waste of time.

Especially cause even if they were “honest,” they’d never truly tell the truth anyway.

Stop trying to read chapters in a book that’s already closed.

The best dating advice I ever learned — Stop Caring About the “Why.” But focus on the “who”.

Most men waste their energy trying to figure out why a woman doesn’t like them, as if solving that mystery will change the outcome.

Did it?

Probably not.

So why on earth do you give a shit?

Save your ego for real moments.

You’re scrolling her IG feed desperately seeking answers, but the algorithm isn’t built for closure, my brothers.

The moment I stopped caring about the “why,” my entire approach to dating women changed for the better and 10x’ed my dating life.

#1 | It’s Not About Self-Pity, It’s About Self-Reflection

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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