“Why do I keep getting Dumped!?”

First of all, sorry. Getting dumped is really shitty. Some have even lamented that genuine heartache affects your brain so much the body almost takes it as physical pain. As a man who’s been dumped a few times, I can totally see where you’re coming from. I have no inhibitions about talking about why I think I was dumped or the fact that my ass was dumped in the first place. I truly am sorry for what you’re going through and I sincerely hope you find peace. It might seem hard now, you might feel worthless or unloved. But I promise one day you’ll look back and realize that this truly was meant to happen. Promise.

But let’s get into this, shall we? If you’ve been dumped consistently. Let’s say the last 4 times someone has dumped you. Let’s try and get to the root of it and fix a few issues.

1. You think you “have them”

I never get the mentality of taking it easy when you’ve got the person of your dreams. And people just like to joke and talk about it as if it’s funny? So weird. I’ve seen so many memes when people say “How I look when I’m in a relationship vs how I look when I’m single”. I just don’t understand. Why would you stop doing the things that you…