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Why don’t I give dating advice to women anymore?
A lot of my female friends would ask me for dating advice about guys, and I’d usually be very blunt and honest with the advice.
Friend A -
Her: On the first date, I told him I used to be a cheerleader, and he asked if he could one day see me in the cheerleader uniform. I asked him what he was like in high school, and he said, “horny for cheerleaders.” Do you think that’s a red flag!?
Me: Of course it is; he’s just looking for fun. Sounds like a waste of time to me.
Friend B -
Her: My boyfriend said he wants to save some cash this year to buy a house, so for my birthday dinner, he wants me to pay half.
Me: How much do you think the dinner will be?
Her: Around $80, maybe.
Me: I don’t know, man. That seems kind of weird. If I were you, I’d dig a bit deeper.
Her: What’s been bothering me is that last month, he splurged on a $150 bottle of wine for a female friend’s birthday.
Me: Sorry, I don’t think he likes you that much. Break up and move on.
Friend C -
I’ve been seeing him for three months, and he only likes to see me once a week. Do you think he’s seeing other…