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Why don’t I give dating advice to women anymore?

Trey Hamilton
13 min readMar 14, 2024

A lot of my female friends would ask me for dating advice about guys, and I’d usually be very blunt and honest with the advice.

Friend A -

Her: On the first date, I told him I used to be a cheerleader, and he asked if he could one day see me in the cheerleader uniform. I asked him what he was like in high school, and he said, “horny for cheerleaders.” Do you think that’s a red flag!?

Me: Of course it is; he’s just looking for fun. Sounds like a waste of time to me.

Friend B -

Her: My boyfriend said he wants to save some cash this year to buy a house, so for my birthday dinner, he wants me to pay half.

Me: How much do you think the dinner will be?

Her: Around $80, maybe.

Me: I don’t know, man. That seems kind of weird. If I were you, I’d dig a bit deeper.

Her: What’s been bothering me is that last month, he splurged on a $150 bottle of wine for a female friend’s birthday.

Me: Sorry, I don’t think he likes you that much. Break up and move on.

Friend C -

I’ve been seeing him for three months, and he only likes to see me once a week. Do you think he’s seeing other…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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