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Why Most Men Failed at Dating in 2024

Trey Hamilton
10 min readDec 24, 2024

Modern dating is no longer a walk in the park.

But to be honest, when was it?

Men like to wax poetic about the good ole days of dating when “when women were women” and all the other bullshit cliches you might hear.

But there has just always been a subset of men who “don’t get none.” No matter what decade or century. They say history repeats itself, and apparently, so does the awkward fumbling of men who missed the memo on charisma.

But with this new age of too much information, it’s gotten even worse. More access for everyone means it’s simply harder for everyone. The internet gives everyone a megaphone when the noise drowns out the whispers of authentic men who want the real deal.

Dating for some men feels like Groundhog Day — armed with terrible myths and bad habits, they keep reliving failures without ever pausing to ask why.

I get it, man. Dating is hard, and there might be a million different reasons why it is harder for you. As a man who’s been there and had zero dates and a shitty year **cough** 2016 **cough**. I can tell you it does it better. Just remember the hard years are very quiet whispers from the universe, daring you to build a stronger version of yourself from their ruins. But most men don’t hear this cause they’re simply not listening…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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