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Women don’t even like men! — So Why Would Men Approach Women?

Trey Hamilton
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Some women are very frustrated with dating. They don’t understand why men aren’t approaching them anymore, why some men aren’t rushing to protect them and kiss their feet anymore.

They’re attractive, smart, independent, and empowered. So why aren’t they getting the results they want?

Well, in a lot of cases, heterosexual women spend most of their time telling us on a daily basis how most things are our fault, and they don’t even like most of them anyway. Look on any social media platform, news articles, or major publishers, and there are common boring fucking dead-end talking points.

“Because men”.

“It’s the patriarchy”

“Men do this and men do that”.

These often repeated and fucking boring phrases are intellectually bankrupt — it’s a child’s attempt at debate, pointing fingers instead of solving problems. It’s all a convenient excuse to avoid self-reflection. Reducing an entire gender to an unthinking monolith of blame does nothing but poison real conversations and reinforce the same victim mindset it claims to despise. It’s like blaming the ocean…

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Trey Hamilton
Trey Hamilton

Written by Trey Hamilton

Author - The First Date Fix - Dating Coach - Content Creator -Dog Dad | follow me for some ramblings of a millennial who has dated. A LOT! TheFirstDateFix.Com

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